I came to this work because I was genuinely tired of the pain and emotional turmoil of failed relationships, of the fear that was holding me back from commitment, and of living a life that lacked authenticity, a life that left me numb rather than bringing me joy I knew was possible. 

Now that you understand my motivation, let me open up to you about my journey.

How it all started

I grew up in a single-parent, female-dominated home with no male role model in my life. This meant that I often struggled with my masculinity and understanding what a healthy romantic relationship entailed.

I spent most of my twenties having meaningless sex just to get validation from women and to feel confident (It didn’t work). I also avoided commitment due to a deep-seated fear of rejection or choosing the wrong woman.

As a consequence, my relationships were toxic, full of conflict, stress, and infidelity.